red-headed stepchild

Jonathan Lighter wuxxmupp2000 at YAHOO.COM
Sat Mar 5 16:17:57 UTC 2005


To "frail" is a Southeastern term for "beat." It has come to be applied particularly to the very old-time (and likely original) style of playing the five-string banjo by beating on the strings with the nails of the right hand rather than plucking them with the fingers. This latter sense is overlooked by OED - maybe I mentioned this once before.

I don't have DARE handy, but OED takes "frail" back to 1851.

JL

Wilson Gray <wilson.gray at RCN.COM> wrote:
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What does "frail" mean in this context?

There's also "beat like a rented mule." It appears to say that one
would act more viciously toward a rented mule than toward one's own
mule. But wouldn't damaging someone else's property cause more trouble
than damaging one's own property?

-Wilson Gray

On Mar 4, 2005, at 10:30 PM, Jonathan Lighter wrote:

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> Don't know about earlier, but I have heard "I'll frail him like a
> red-headed stepchild" in Tennessee within the past ten years or less.
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> JL
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> Sam Clements wrote:
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> I can find a 1910 cite in Newspaperarchive that uses this metaphor
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> the South. =20
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> Is there anything earlier? I can understand that a stepchild might be =
> treated poorly, but why the red-headed? Were red heads thought less of
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> in history?
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> samclem
> Doing research on a Straightdope subject
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