pointing, not with finger

Bruce White white067 at TC.UMN.EDU
Wed Mar 6 17:54:53 UTC 2013


In my wife's Irish American family it is considered to be very crude for 
wait staff in restaurants point the way to the bathroom, so that the 
quality of the restaurant will be determined by that fact alone. More 
relevant is that I've heard Dakota people in Minnesota joke about the 
whole lip-pointing thing. Unfortunately because my Irish-American 
grandfather was a Methodist minister who loved to point during sermons 
for emphasis, I have inherited that nasty practice even when speaking 
with with Dakota and Ojibwe people, much as I have tried to learn Bill 
Clinton's technique of knuckle pointing.
Bruce White

On 3/6/2013 11:43 AM, Margaret Noori wrote:
> Miigwech / Merci for the additional details!  It does seem there are 
> international indigenous consistencies. . .  Amy will have to tell us 
> all how she interprets all this!  : )
>
> On Wed, Mar 6, 2013 at 12:28 PM, David Lessard 
> <david.lessard2 at mail.mcgill.ca <mailto:david.lessard2 at mail.mcgill.ca>> 
> wrote:
>
>     They were indeed quick about it. I just had asked it casually,
>     like spontaneously in the moment. So I don't mean to have any
>     conclusion with it. They were two men who told me so, one in his
>     40s and the other in his 60s, and they were from totally different
>     places and did not know each other. I however noticed that they
>     did it systematically and never seen them pointing with finger.
>
>     For Ecuador, it was a friend in his 30s that told me about it. He
>     said that pointing a finger was necessarily accusative and given
>     security issues in the country when he grew up, you could get in
>     much trouble if you pointed randomly at people in public places. I
>     noticed that they would point to things with their lips while
>     still looking at their interlocutor. It was thus quite discreet
>     and when looked at from outside the conversation, you could not
>     tell if they were pointing or nodding, or saying they did not know.
>
>     It both cases, they use both the chin and the lips, as if they
>     were blowing a kiss, but without opening them. I have seen it so
>     many times that the habit grew on me.
>
>     This is all I know, but it is something that always caught my
>     attention, so would like to know more about it.
>
>     David
>
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>     De : Margaret Noori
>     Envoyé : 2013-03-06 12:11
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>     Objet : Re: pointing, not with finger
>
>     This is interesting.  How well did you know the people you asked?
>      How old were they?  It seems like 1/2 reply to me and I wonder if
>     they were just being quick about it or if they no longer get
>     taught the same lesson as the Anishinaabe.
>
>     On Wed, Mar 6, 2013 at 10:44 AM, David Lessard
>     <david.lessard2 at mail.mcgill.ca
>     <mailto:david.lessard2 at mail.mcgill.ca>> wrote:
>
>         I have seen this among the James Bay Cree. I asked why and
>         they told me it was more efficient when they had their hands
>         full. I did not investigate further though.
>
>         I have been told that it is an habit in Ecuador too.
>
>         David
>
>         Envoyé à partir de mon Windows Phone
>         ------------------------------------------------------------------------
>         De : Conor Quinn
>         Envoyé : 2013-03-06 10:29
>         À : ALGONQUIANA at LISTSERV.LINGUISTLIST.ORG
>         <mailto:ALGONQUIANA at LISTSERV.LINGUISTLIST.ORG>
>         Objet : Re: pointing, not with finger
>
>         Dia dhaoibh, a chairde!
>
>         Definitely had this pointed out to me by Penobscots; not sure
>         how it may be among the Passamaquoddies, but it rings a bell
>         there, too.  No clue as to why, though pointing with the lips
>         (= the acceptable and common strategy) is also common in
>         Australia, I'm told.  I might imagine that, other
>         society/culture/belief-system factors aside, being well
>         trained not to point with your hands helps in hunting, since
>         the game-spooking motion is far less salient.  But that's just
>         pure speculation on my part.
>
>         Till later, keep safe and sane.
>
>         Slán,
>         bhur gcara
>
>         On Wed, Mar 6, 2013 at 8:54 AM, Amy Dahlstrom
>         <a-dahlstrom at uchicago.edu <mailto:a-dahlstrom at uchicago.edu>>
>         wrote:
>
>             Hello Algonquianists,
>
>             I'm a discussant at an upcoming conference on gesture, and
>             one thing I thought I would mention to the (extremely
>             diverse) audience is the practice among at least some of
>             the Algonquian peoples of pointing with the lips or with
>             the chin, rather than pointing with the finger.
>
>             I would like to ask you all how widespread this practice
>             is.  And for native speakers (native pointers? :-) ), do
>             you have any intuitions about why pointing with the finger
>             is avoided?  Would it seem rude to point with the finger?
>              Or inappropriate in some other way?
>
>             thanks in advance for any thoughts you can share!
>
>             Amy
>
>             P.S.  if you hit "reply" remember that you are replying to
>             the whole list! :-)
>
>
>
>
>
>     -- 
>
>     Margaret Noori
>
>     Director, Comprehensive Studies Program
>
>     University of Michigan
>
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>
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>
>
>
>
> -- 
>
> Margaret Noori
>
> Director, Comprehensive Studies Program
>
> University of Michigan
>
> 1111 Angell Hall
>
> 435 S. State St.
>
> Ann Arbor, MI 48109-1003
>
> www.lsa.umich.edu/csp/ <http://www.lsa.umich.edu/csp/>
>
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