<div dir="ltr"><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt;font-size:11pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif"><a name="_GoBack"></a>The following might be a useful exercise to spark discussion, as described by Jackson Katz in his book, <i>The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women
and How All Men Can Help</i>:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;font-size:11pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif"><span style="font-size:10pt">I
draw a line down the middle of a chalkboard, sketching a male symbol on one
side and a female symbol on the other. Then I ask just the men: What steps do
you guys take, on a daily basis, to prevent yourselves from being sexually
assaulted? At first there is a kind of awkward silence as the men try to figure
out if they've been asked a trick question. The silence gives way to a
smattering of nervous laughter. Occasionally, a young a guy will raise his hand
and say, 'I stay out of prison.' This is typically followed by another moment
of laughter, before someone finally raises his hand and soberly states,
'Nothing. I don't think about it.'</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;font-size:11pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif"><span style="font-size:10pt">Then
I ask the women the same question. What steps do you take on a daily basis to
prevent yourselves from being sexually assaulted? </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;font-size:11pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif"><span style="font-size:10pt">Women
throughout the audience immediately start raising their hands. As the men sit
in stunned silence, the women recount safety precautions they take as part of
their daily routine. Here are some of their answers:</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;font-size:11pt;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif"><span style="font-size:10pt">Hold
my keys as a potential weapon. Look in the back seat of the car before getting
in. Carry a cell phone. Don't go jogging at night. Lock all the windows when I
sleep, even on hot summer nights. Be careful not to drink too much. Don't put
my drink down and come back to it; make sure I see it being poured. Own a big
dog. Carry Mace or pepper spray. Have an unlisted phone number. Have a man's
voice on my answering machine. Park in well-lit areas. Don't use parking
garages. Don't get on elevators with only one man, or with a group of men. Vary
my route home from work. Watch what I wear. Don't use highway rest areas. Use a
home alarm system. Don't wear headphones when jogging. Avoid forests or wooded
areas, even in the daytime. Don't take a first-floor apartment. Go out in
groups. Own a firearm. Meet men on first dates in public places. Make sure to
have a car or cab fare. Don't make eye contact with men on the street. Make
assertive eye contact with men on the street.</span></p><br><div class="gmail_quote"><div dir="ltr">On Mon, Oct 1, 2018 at 10:21 AM Quinn, E Moore <<a href="mailto:QuinnE@cofc.edu">QuinnE@cofc.edu</a>> wrote:<br></div><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">
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<p style="margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0">Friends and colleagues, hello:</p>
<p style="margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0">In my upcoming unit on language and gender, I would like to cover the subject of male anger.</p>
<p style="margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0">This is a recent <i>Slate</i> article that I could use, but I welcome anything you have to offer.</p>
<p style="margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0">Thanks in advance,</p>
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Hearing Except Christine Blasey Ford</a></div>
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<span style="font-size:11pt"></span><span style="font-size:11pt">Department of Sociology and Anthropology</span><br>
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