kdshea at aol.com
Tue Oct 6 03:51:29 UTC 2009
Thank-you, Bob, for posting this on the Siouan list for me and, Jill, for your kind comments. I don't have it in me to write much at this time, but I will try to give a fuller report to the list later. I'll copy here what I wrote tonight to my family in California to let them know what has ocurred:
Parrish Williams--"Uncle" Parrish--passed away Sunday morning peacefully in his sleep surrounded by family. He was 96. I had just gotten to Ponca City Saturday night. I went to a prayer meeting led by the Methodist minister at his home last night, where the funeral will be Wednesday. There will be an all-night meeting of the Native American Church at the home Tuesday night. (Uncle Parrish was very ecumenical.) As is traditional, the funeral takes place on the fourth day, with a feast, give-away, and a graveside ceremony.
His death was timely but of course still a shock. I am saddened, will miss him, and learned a lot from him. His family are good people and treated me very well, accepting me as one of the family. I'm writing this from Lawrence, where I drove today to try to get my 2008 taxes in the mail, and I'll drive back down to Ponca City for the supper before the NAC meeting tomorrow. I just wanted you to know what's happening to me and my whereabouts. If you want to read his obituary, it should appear in tomorrow afternoon's Ponca City News at www.poncacitynews.com. Please spread the word to others if you like, as I'm afraid of leaving someone out if I try to add more e-mail addresses.
Jill, I just want to add that, when I first went to Oklahoma in the summer of 1994 to start working with Uncle Parrish, he told me that it was due largely to Grandpa Truman's encouragement and good experience working with you, Lori Stanley, and Louanna Furbee that he decided to meet me and ultimately committed himself to working with me as long as I stayed with the project. He proved to be an extremely intelligent and excellent teacher. Grandpa Truman was about ten years older than Uncle Parrish and was one of his mentors. I would say that they were both magnanimous, interested in the welfare of their people, and true citizens of the world. Another strong mentor for Uncle Parrish was his grandpa (?) Ed Packhorse, who gave him his fireplace. Uncle Parrish always aspired to live as long as Grandpa Ed, and he did! (Grandpa Truman lived to be about the same age as both of them, too.) I'm very lucky to have had Uncle Parrish as my teacher, friend, and adopted relative for as long as I have--fifteen years.
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From: Jill Greer
To: siouan at lists.Colorado.EDU
Sent: Monday, October 05, 2009 11:38 AM
Subject: Re: Parrish Williams
And a truly wonderful human being.
I count it one of the privileges of my life to have met Parrish and been a guest in his tipi.
One of our Iowa elders, Arthur Lightfoot had an adoptive relation to Parrish's late wife, so that was the context for initially meeting him. He and Grampa Truman Dailey (Otoe-Missouria) were called upon to fly to Portland (?) to testify for Sen. Inouwe's committee on religious freedom after the Smith vs. Oregon case, and both of these elder roadman's testimonies appear in the wonderful Kifaru Production documentary Peyote Road. He was also featured in Alice Anderton's "Word Path" program, which was such a wonderful episode I often use it in my classes.
>>> "Rankin, Robert L" <rankin at ku.edu> 10/5/2009 10:41 AM >>>
Kathy Shea sends the sad news that Parrish Williams has died. He was a fluent Ponca speaker, a tribal elder and an important figure in the Native American Church.
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