Finally!

[Wilson Gray]

What Jon said.

As for my claim that there's a relationship to race, "fuck over" has
been a BE street (and, in some households, a home) colloquialism that
I've been familiar with since the beginning of time. But this, in my
experience, is not the case among white speakers. As an example the
racial bit, in 1960, I once used the term in the barracks at the Army
Language School. I asked, "Have you guys heard about the way that the
First shirt fucked over Lupow?" And my barracks-mates, all of whom
were white (during the time that I was at the Language School, among
approximately 400 students in the Russian Division, there were only
two black GI"s: your humble correspondent and a WAC with a big butt),
freaked. Not a single one had ever heard the phrase, "fuck over,"
before. I was stunned, since I know it like I know my own name.
Naturally, they thought that it was really cool and wanted to learn
it. (I had to teach some people that you say "FUCK over" and not "fuck
OVER"). I first heard the expression, "fuck someone over" ca.1970 and,
from that time to the present, I've never heard it used by blacks
under any circumstances, despite any literary evidence to the
contrary, possibly because I've never been a fan of Louis Armstrong,
etc., not to mention that no such record would ever have been played
on the radio and it's doubtful that it would have been sold in any
black record shop, back in the day, any more than a black store or
shop would have sold pornography. Till at least the 'Seventies, the
most erotic material freely available in black-operated stores was
Playboy, Jet magazine, and the Jet girlie calendar. I went to grade
school with Lamont McLemore, Jet's longtime girlie photographer -
since ca.1950 - and also a member of the Fifth Dimension, the formerly
well-known Saint Louis singing group. He was a Renaissance man, I
reckon. It must have been a hard life, since Lamont, though he was
younger than I am, died several years ago.

-Wilson

As for the syntax, saying "He fucked over me," etc., sounds completely
natural to me. OTOH, "He fucked me over"


On 9/24/07, Jonathan Lighter <wuxxmupp2000 at yahoo.com> wrote:
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> Though skin pigmentation is irrelevant per se, HDAS suggests (and I believe) that "to fuck over X"
>
>   a. was indeed the original form in the sense in question,
>
>   b. has been vastly more prevalent among speakers of AAVE - so much so as to sugget the idiom's origin there,
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>   c. was not much used in white speech before the mid '70s,
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>   d. still sounds rhythmically or positionally "wrong" to me as a speaker of WAVE.
>
>   Earliest HDAS ex. is from 1961, but the context suggests it was around for a while.
>
>   The form "fuck X over" undoubtedly owes something to "work X over."  I believe this is becoming the general form.
>
>   JL
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>   Wilson Gray <hwgray at GMAIL.COM> wrote:
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> The correct usage has appeared in print! From Slashdot:
>
> "... [G]ranting corporations the right to _fuck over_ other
> corporations who come up with rather ordinary improvements ..."
>
> Lest the point be missed, for those of us old enough (and/or black enough?),
>
> "... [G]ranting corporations the right to _fuck_ other corporations
> _over_ who come up with rather ordinary improvements ..." is
> ungrammatical.
>
> That is, [fuck NP over] is absolutely *not* a viable or a grammatical
>
> alternative to [fuck over NP]. Unless, of course, you speak a
> different dialect.
>
> There are 215,000 raw Google hits that include uses such as "get the
> fuck over it." So, sorting out the various usages would take ten men
> and a boy. But the Urban Dictionary, at least, has it right. Well,
> sort of. The second definition defines _fuck over_ as a Briticism
> meaning "fuck over," with examples ambiguous as to dialect. And either
> UD doesn't have "fuck NP over" (unlikely?) or I don't know how to find
> it (likely?).
>
> -Wilson
>
> -Wilson
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