Non-abusive tot moms

Jonathan Lighter wuxxmupp2000 at GMAIL.COM
Thu Jun 16 14:12:38 UTC 2011


But, more important, *why* do they sound cool?

There's the assonance, natch. Also, they're pithy. Too, they designate
concepts that are either novel ("tot mom" in its original denotation) or
clumsily paraphrased ("baby daddy"). Finally, they're just opaque enough to
be interesting, yet instantly comprehensible and memorable when understood.

Many neo-tot moms may be less "fun" when they grow into "PTA moms."

JL

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On Thu, Jun 16, 2011 at 7:48 AM, Jonathan Lighter <wuxxmupp2000 at gmail.com>wrote:

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> 'Cause _tot mom_  just sounds cool.
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> Like _baby daddy_.
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> JL
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> On Wed, Jun 15, 2011 at 9:42 PM, Neal Whitman <nwhitman at ameritech.net
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> > The creator of the "Tot Moms" blog, begun in April 2011, goes beyond the
> > straightforward "mother of a young child" meaning of "tot mom" to include
> > other characteristics that you would not guess at just based on the words
> > "tot" and "mom":
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> > "A tot mom is enthusiastic, committed, hard working, loving, fun, and
> most
> > of all, dedicated to their [sic] tots. Every mother featured has all the
> > qualities of a tot mom."
> > http://totmoms.wordpress.com/
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> > She seems to have no idea that opposite connotations might be creeping
> into
> > other people's conception of "tot mom" because of Casey Anthony and Nancy
> > Grace, as discussed here in 2008 and this year (threads at
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> > and http://listserv.linguistlist.org/cgi-bin/wa?A2=ADS-L;8e2f13ec.1105D
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> > Neal Whitman
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> > Blog: http://literalminded.wordpress.com
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