[Ads-l] Request help researching adage: Everything is OK in the end. If it's not OK, it's not the end

[ADSGarson O'Toole]

Fred Shapiro wrote:
> Quite a crazy quotation.  Usually proverbs express fundamental
> truths of human existence.  I don't mean to be cynical, but this
> proverb is ridiculously false, as we all know.

The saying appears to be popular based on the number of inquiries I
have received. Here are three interpretations:

(1) Eschatological stance
(2) Karmic stance
(3) Heuristic for consuming upbeat works of fiction with multiple twists

Garson

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> Subject: Re: Request help researching adage: Everything is OK in the end. If it's not OK, it's not the end
>
> Hi Garson,
> It's in the Yale Library system (Long-term Shelving Facility) in the
> 1988 version (as well as a more recent one). I can order the volume if
> nobody else has quicker access to it and it will show up at Sterling (the
> main library building) in a few days, at which point I can check p. 79.
> Let me know!
>
> LH
>
> On Thu, Dec 15, 2022 at 1:25 AM ADSGarson O'Toole <adsgarsonotoole at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
> > The saying in the subject line has been attributed to John Lennon,
> > Oscar Wilde, Paul Coelho, Fernando Sabino, and others. I have received
> > nine inquiries for this quotation.
> >
> > The earliest match I have found appears in a book by Fernando Sabino
> > in Brazilian Portuguese (I think). Here are the details. Does your
> > research library have this book?
> >
> > Year: 1988 Copyright
> > Book Title: O tabuleiro de damas (The checkerboard)
> > Author: Fernando Sabino
> > Quote Page 79 (unverified)
> > Publisher: Editora Record, Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
> > Note: Google Books snippet match, the following excerpt is from Google
> > Books; text is not  visible in snippet
> >
> > [Begin excerpt]
> > O melhor , talvez , que me lembre, foi o que me disse um dia em que me
> > encontrou entregue à aflição de espírito: Meu filho , tudo no fim dá
> > certo . Se não deu , é porque ainda não chegou ao fim.
> > [End excerpt]
> >
> > [Begin Google Translate]
> > Perhaps the best thing that I can remember is what he said to me one
> > day when he found me in the grip of a mental affliction: My son,
> > everything works out in the end. If it didn't, it's because it hasn't
> > come to an end yet.
> > [End Google Translate]
> >
> > If you can help access this book please let me know on or off list.
> > Can you figure out from the context who is using the quotation? Is
> > Fernando Sabino attributing the quotation to his father? The goal is
> > to get scans of the page with the quotation, the title page, the
> > copyright page, the publisher page, and the date.
> >
> > Below is the earliest match I have found in English:
> >
> > Usenet discussion message,
> > Date: December 22, 2000
> > Newsgroup: alt.support.divorce
> > From: m miller
> > Subject: Re: Happy Christmas? Doubtful
> > Accessed: December 15, 2022
> >
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> >
> > [Begin excerpt]
> > Remember this:  Everything is OK in the end.  If it's not OK, it's not the
> > end.
> > [End excerpt]
> >
> > Below is another match in English.
> >
> > Date: July 15, 2001
> > Newspaper: News of the World
> > Newspaper Location: London, England
> > Section: Features
> > Article: Festival of hate shames our land
> > Author: Bishop Pat Buckley
> > Quote Page Eire 11,
> > Database: NewsBank Access World News
> >
> > [Begin excerpt]
> > THESE philosophical musings were sent to me by Sean Morrin, of Derry
> > City. Read them slowly-and think about them ...
> > True friendship never ends. Friends are for ever.
> > Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
> > Everything is OK in the end. If it's not OK, it's not the end.
> > [End excerpt]
> >
> > Garson O'Toole
> > QuoteInvestigator.com
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