"That's so gay" controversy

[GABRIELLA MODAN]

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Galey

Another question that this discussion brings up is whether words like this ever get totally resignified so that they lose their original connection with the group they once referred to. I had thought that this seemed to be the case with the term 'jerry-rigged' (derogatory term for Germans), but, according to my students from southern Ohio, the group-ID meaning stuck around enough that people in southern Ohio think it's an old derogatory term for African Americans. 

I'm wondering what people think about the term 'lame', though. From the ways it's been used in this discussion it seems it has become largely decoupled from the meaning 'disabled in the foot or leg'. Is this the case, or does it still have some residual meaning from the original? My guess is that it is further along in the decoupling process because 'lame' is falling out of use in its original meaning. Is this common? In other words, can 'lame' or 'gay' or any other generalized pejorative only lose its connection to a group when that term falls out of usage as a literal (derogatory or not) referent to that group?

And in regard to John's question about whether 'that's so gay' is related to homosexual gay -- it's not a coincidence that 'that's so gay' means exactly the same thing as 'that's so queer'. (But I would argue actually means something different than 'that's so lame'. It would not make sense to say 'that's so gay' to mean, that's a really lousy excuse.)

Galey