Daddies and mummies

Fri May 2 02:47:03 UTC 2008

I agree that children need to be aware of their rights, the existence of oppression, and so on.  However, asking a child to enact such things is rather different to explaining such issues to them in a sensitive manner. Enactment of violence and abuse, such as is asked of the child in the making of this film, can have very severe consequences for the child.

Put it this way; I would not allow my child to play this role, and would advise a parent against allowing their child to be involved. I believe there are other, less harmful ways to get the message across.

Heather Campbell

Murray School of Education

Charles Sturt University

Australia

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Well,

The girl seemed to be having a lot of fun at it. And I suppose I would prefer an awareness of the existence of family violence to a girl misleaded into believing that certain things don't exist (until it happens to them). I feel that it is really cultural, for lack of a better word, the American (but not all Americans) tendency to hide stuff from children. Personally, I feel it is better to make children aware as soon as possible of sexism and oppression, so they can learn to defend themselves.

That's my two cents.

Valentina Pagliai

Oberlin College

On May 1, 2008, at 9:04 PM, Campbell, Heather wrote:

I must say, I agree with your concerns. Powerful film, but as an early childhood educator, I am extremely conflicted about this. There was a duty of care towards the wellbeing of the young child acting in this film, and I wonder if the possible benefits deriving from the film (that is, raising awareness of domestic violence and its effect upon children) justify the potential harm inflicted upon the child involved.

Heather Campbell

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All I can think is, what about this young "actor" who is doing this?  What is she thinking as she says all of these horrible things?  You can't, even in an acting context, make this sound like "pretend" can you?  It's an incredible film, unbelievable (and incredibly important message of course), but I'm so conflicted about the reality of making it.

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Well, there's a frighteningly powerful message 
about how kids internalize and learn to reproduce 
domestic partner abuse.  I'm forwarding this to 
our SafePlace volunteer co-ordinator...

At 10:25 PM +0200 5/1/08, Goretty Robles Fernández wrote:
>I'm speechless.
>http://www.metacafe.com/watch/336489/papas_y_mamas_daddies_mummies/

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