"Not All Men"

[Ann Burlingham]

ah, thanks! it's probably some setting at my end, then.


On Thu, Jun 5, 2014 at 12:25 AM, Jesse Sheidlower <jester at panix.com> wrote:

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> Only one copy made it to the list, and it was in fine condition. Not
> sure why you're getting a second version, or why it's not correctly
> translating curly quotes and em-dashes and the like.
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> On Thu, Jun 05, 2014 at 12:02:59AM -0400, Ann Burlingham wrote:
> > (Oh, dear: i see I received two copies as a list member, one as it looked
> > when I wrote it, all neat and nice, and the other as I sometimes see
> > others' writing, full of messy mark-up notations. Is there a fix from my
> > end, either as sender or receiver?)
> >
> >
> > On Wed, Jun 4, 2014 at 11:50 PM, Ann Burlingham <ann at burlinghambooks.com
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> > wrote:
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> > > Subject:      "Not All Men"
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> > > I thought this discussion of the concept and phrase "Not all men" was
> > > interesting, from Time back on April 28th. The author is Jess
> ZImmerman. I
> > > am always pleased to see Joanna Russ quoted, and the cartoon the
> discussion
> > > is pegged from in excellent. From the piece, the cartoonist comments:
> > >
> > > =E2=80=9CI don=E2=80=99t recall a very specific instance so much as it
> was
> > > =
> > > sort of
> > > everywhere, very suddenly!=E2=80=9D Lubchansky wrote in an email.
> > > =E2=80=9C=
> > > But instead of
> > > this being something with a single origin, i think this phrase is
> unique
> > > among this kind of stuff because it was actually coming from the
> mouths of
> > > these dopes. Like some dummy would for REAL be coming at people talking
> > > about racial or gender equality stuff, waving their arms and saying
> =E2=80=
> > > =98UM
> > > ACTUALLY NOT ME!=E2=80=99=E2=80=9D
> > >
> > > Zimmerman writes:
> > >
> > > "It=E2=80=99s true that previous derailment favorites like
> > > =E2=80=9Cpatriar=
> > > chy hurts men
> > > too=E2=80=9D were paraphrases in a way that =E2=80=9Cnot all
> men=E2=80=9D
> > > i=
> > > s not. The demand is the
> > > same =E2=80=94 =E2=80=9Cplease move me to the center of your
> discussion=E2=
> > > =80=9D =E2=80=94 but =E2=80=9Cnot all
> > > men=E2=80=9D is, in many cases, straight from the horse=E2=80=99s
> mouth;
> > > ev=
> > > en an amateur
> > > Reddit spelunker can turn up plenty of sulky or defensive uses of the
> > > phrase.
> > >
> > > =E2=80=9CNot all men=E2=80=9D also differs from =E2=80=9Cwhat about the
> > > men=
> > > ?=E2=80=9D and other classic
> > > derails because it acknowledges that rape, sexism, and misogyny are
> real
> > > issues =E2=80=94 just not, you know, real issues that the speaker is
> > > involv=
> > > ed with
> > > in any way. The =E2=80=9Cnot all men=E2=80=9D man, at least in some
> cases,
> > > =
> > > agrees with you
> > > and is perfectly willing to talk about how terrible those other guys
> are,
> > > just as soon as we get done establishing that he himself would never be
> > > such a cad. It=E2=80=99s infuriating and unhelpful, but in a way it
> > > represe=
> > > nts a
> > > weird kind of progress."
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> http://time.com/79357/not-all-men-a-brief-history-of-every-dudes-favorite-a=
> > > rgument/
> > >
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Ann Burlingham
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Phone: 585-237-3190
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www.burlinghambooks.com
Wyoming County Chamber of Commerce
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