Reference needed

[Amy Sheldon]

Fishman has hetero couples' interactions, but of the sort being queried?
Amy

On Jan 18, 2010, at 1:39 PM, elissa.asp at SMU.CA wrote:

> Dear Valentine,
> I don't think you dreamed them. I think this might be from P. Fishman,
> "Interaction: the work women do" dating from the late 70's. She had
> transcripts.
> Regards, Elissa
>> Dear colleagues,
>>
>> Thanks to all who answered my query. It seems that the example  
>> came from Tannen's book, "You Just Don't Understand." However, in  
>> the book she does not present any transcript for it, so I suppose  
>> I must have dreamed them at some point.
>>
>> Ochs also has a similar example, see cite below.
>>
>> Best,
>>
>> Valentina Pagliai
>> CUNY Queens College
>>
>>
>>
>> ----- Original Message ----
>> From: Amy Sheldon <asheldon at UMN.EDU>
>> To: GALA-L at LISTSERV.LINGUISTLIST.ORG
>> Sent: Wed, January 13, 2010 4:16:20 PM
>> Subject: Re: [GALA-L] Reference needed
>>
>> Hello Valentina,
>>
>> As I recall, the excerpt here about the daycare payment conundrum  
>> is a similar example, whether or not it is the one you're thinking  
>> of:
>>
>> 1996 Ochs, E. & Taylor, C. "'The father knows best' dynamic in  
>> family dinner narratives" in _Gender articulated: Language and the  
>> socially constructed self_
>>
>> A pdf is at Elinor Ochs' website at UCLA.
>>
>> Amy Sheldon
>> U of Minnesota
>>
>> On Jan 13, 2010, at 2:38 PM, Valentina wrote:
>>
>>> Dear colleague,
>>>
>>>
>>> I am at a loss looking for an old example of interaction between  
>>> husband and wife.
>>>
>>> Does anybody remember the old example of the wife telling the  
>>> husband about trouble at work, just as a way to express her  
>>> feelings? And the husband instead trying to offer advice?
>>>
>>> I need to look at the original transcripts and I cannot recall  
>>> where they were published.
>>>
>>> Does anybody remember the reference?
>>>
>>> Thanks,
>>>
>>> Valentina Pagliai
>>> CUNY Queens College
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>
>>
>>

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