SV: query: taboo against 3 people in picture

TRUDGILL Peter peter.trudgill at UNIFR.CH
Wed Feb 22 15:28:50 UTC 2012

The third person joining another couple is said "to be playing gooseberry". Anybody know why?

(Sorry, David, nothing to do with your question.)


On 22 Feb 2012, at 15:09, Didier BOTTINEAU wrote:

All this is also remiscent of Diana’s famous 1995 interview

"Well, there were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded."

--> in a strictly monogamous culture, it would be tempting to imagine that a picture with three people in it is remiscent of "overcrowded marriages" / "ménage à trois", a rather unpleasant notion for the people in the picture; while four people in the picture are not supposed to evoke one marriage, but two (in French we also occasionally "ménage à quatre", though!), and so make up an unproblematic number. I have no idea if this connection could apply to South-East Asian and Pacific cultures.

Peter Trudgill  FBA
Prof. of Sociolinguistics, Agder Univ., N;
Adjunct Prof., RCLT, La Trobe Univ., AU;
Prof. Emeritus of Eng. Linguistics, Fribourg Univ, CH;
Hon. Prof. of Sociolinguistics, UEA, Norwich, UK

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